Facebook and it's use!

One thing that I can't deny is the craziness that comes with FACEBOOK. I definitely find myself on there way more than I should....but I will tell you what, in all honestly FACEBOOk is my escape from reality even if it's just a few minutes or once a day now....I can go to FB and post and read and laugh and push my whole day to the side for a few minutes. I guess it's my drama that I don't have to keep ....being about to walk away from that is probably the ONLY reason I continue to be a part of the wonderful social network because it's not my realistic I have to pay my bills life, I can walk away any time and I don't get calls (just a metaphor) ha!

Wow what a day

We decided sometime last week to get up and go to San Deigo Natural History Museum to see the Titanic display, today was the 100 anniversary. Kaitlynn has really been interested in learning about the incident and what really happened to the boat, she is such an engineer like her dad and her Uncle Ron. We had so much fun FINALLY able to get out and do family stuff. It was great

So I sat in the car and had thinking time because I wasn't driving this gave me time go text friends for ideas, where to find this where to find that for the wedding. By the time I got home I started feeling like a real party planner :0) Thanks everyone for your help!! We have people coming from all over, Montana, Maine, Massachusetts (M STATES) even AZ. Ha...my mom and I sat down last night and talked about decorations and decided on flowers, that was such a great moment to share with my mom. I am so blessed and grateful for my friends and family. I keep visioning in my mind the colors and everything I can't wait until it all comes together. The flower bouquet is the color scheme we're going with and our centerpeices and stuff will all resemble this bouquet. Now to start my vows...The hardest part! why doesn't the man ever worry about things like this?

We were playing with some software kaitlynn found and hubby was being funny and made me awanted poster. he's a hoot! Made me laugh!! and ONLY 2.50??????

me me and me

If you know me you know I'm going to pretty much say my piece and move on in most situations...I used to be drama many years ago (I think we all were when we were young) but the games grew tired over the years. But one thing I will tell you I will express my opinion along with questions of ponder in my blog and however it is taken....well it's on who ever is reading it. Don't consume any amount of time wondering if it's about you, you'll drive your self crazy. I've know many of people in different places over the years and girls there is only 1 click of misfits I will writ e about , they give me the most crap to think about...hahaha

Anyways enough of that....Who's drinking BEER THIS WEEKEND! Nascar Night Race Saturday!!!

Milestones and life changing events

It's never a dull moment in my life stemming from family to friends, there seems to be a never ending line of drama. But in the end you find that it all turns out for the best. You meet new people every day, you find something new out about not only yourself but your children, your significant other your parents....??? What is it in today's society that drives people to do the things they do. Why does an individual decide to be a friend one day then deceptive the next?

It was an amazing experience once where I sat at an event watching all the people who have come in and out of my life at some aspect. Some who I could really not care about, some who have touched me and some well, that's another whole blog. In the last 10 yrs my life has been a roller coaster but I can honestly say I have been true to myself and to others. These people, defiantly not. If some ONLY knew what they have said while their back is turned and I am sure I've been the topic of their conversation.

But as I left I left a bit saddened, there were some I missed laughing with, crying with. Some there were promises made to each other wondering if they were forgotten. It's too bad we've all gone in different directions in our lives that so much precious time gets set by the waste side.

Through all this I have learned to choose my friends wisely. I have learned to quickly learn who I can trust and who I can't, not only in a personal aspect but professionally also. In the last year I have come to treasure those close to me and appreciate the time and laughter we have.

After an experience in my professional life last year I grew thick skin and in some way it was bound to happen. Don't get me wrong, I am the first one to say I made a mistake and GOD only knows I have made those mistakes, but life is short. Get off your pedestal before you fall...if not, I am sure there is someone out there that just might push you off.